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From: (Not Displayed) Received: 6:16 pm on Nov. 19, 2008 Return to Inbox
Subject: Love problem
Ok. Thank you in advance for reading about my problem. Here goes. There's a girl in my class that I like very much. She's friendly,sweet and intelligent. I've never liked a girl like this before. Problem is she already has a boyfriend.

Inspite of this I still told her how I felt about her. I told her i'd be there for her always and that if she ever wanted to talk about anything or if she needed something,she could just ask me. She said it was ok. 'Ok'? What does 'ok' mean?

I'm trying the best I can to simply forget about but I just can't,though deep down i'm still hoping (my friends keep telling me that i'm optimistic) that something could happen between us... Thanks for comments.

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 Hellos.

 First of all, when she says "Okay." It probably is because she's shocked and she doesn't know what to say. Imagine the awkwardness when a guy(hopefully a nice and sweet guy) comes over to her and suddenly tells her that he likes her and it's not just a simply crush, and you have a boyfriend. You would be just standing there and all you can manage is okay. Of course, to you it's not going to be a satisfactory answer but you probably can't expect her to say anything else.

 No matter whether she doesn't have any feelings for you, it will make her think about it, even if she doesn't plan to break her relationship or anything.

 There's definitely a chance that she might go out with you in the end. You know relationships are not going to last forever and maybe they will break up soon. Although it may make things awkward between you and her, it's good that you've said it. You are open about your feelings towards her and...that's well, good. You never know what will happen.

 It's good that you have supporting friends. Right now I think there's nothing you can do but like your friends say, stay optimistic.

 Also, know that if it can't work out between you and her, life is still young. There are plenty of chances to meet other girls, so don't get too upset.
 Good luck!

Posted at 4:37 am on Nov. 20, 2008

Hi -
Well for one, although you may love this girl and she could've been the most perfect girl for you, the decision is all on her. You got to respect that even if she does like you, that she has a boyfriend too. Putting her in that situation is hard enough. I'd suggest just take a step back and just talk to her as a friend. So you 2 would have a connection ( if thats the case ) and not ruin anything. And if shes ever in need of company or trouble that you'll be there for her with open arms.
I hope for the best for the both of you

Posted at 8:14 pm on Nov. 19, 2008
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